Mickey Hung

What Incense Should You Burn After Divorce?

Burning the Heart Sutra Tube Incense

According to China’s Ministry of Civil Affairs, in just the first three quarters of 2022, 1.643 million couples ended their marriages. The nationwide divorce rate that year reached 43.53%—meaning nearly one out of every two marriages ended in divorce. The numbers are sobering.

Ancient texts say: “If there were no debts from past lives, how could we meet in this one?” I agree with this. Without karmic ties, why do so many women laugh before marriage but cry afterward?

Every woman longs for happiness. But once happiness becomes routine, fatigue sets in. Without realizing it, she loosens her grip, and the man slips away.

For over 20 years, I’ve run the Destiny Mailbox (https://weibo.com/3979119649), where countless female readers have shared their struggles with divorce and breakups. As a professional fortune-teller, I can say that our birth charts hold hidden elements of marriage. Some couples quarrel constantly but still remain together into old age. Others cannot endure a husband’s infidelity and end up divorcing.

From the perspective of karmic destiny, I encourage women—especially after divorce—to let go of “small love” and embrace “great love.”

Small Love vs. Great Love

Many ask: what’s the difference? To me, it lies in whether or not one is free from the “three poisons” of greed, anger, and ignorance.

• Small love is one-dimensional. A woman thinks: “I met you in this life, I loved you, but you betrayed me. You had an affair. That’s your fault.”
  Women bound by small love refuse to take responsibility. They do not practice gratitude. They place all blame on men—from dating to marriage to divorce. They see themselves as “right” and men as “wrong.” With resentment in their hearts, they never think to burn the Heart Sutra Tube Incense after separation.
• Great love is two-dimensional—spanning space and time. It recognizes that each person has many lifetimes. Your spouse today may have been your spouse in a past life—or even your enemy. In great love, you let go of resentment. You no longer share a bed, but you still wish the other well: “I will burn the Heart Sutra Tube Incense, repay my karmic debt, and release us both. Under the same sky, we each follow our own path of practice.”
  Great love comes through spiritual cultivation. Not everyone is blessed enough to experience it.

After divorce, most people are influenced by family and friends. They support you emotionally, assuring you that you’re right and your ex is wrong. In such an atmosphere, no one suggests burning the Heart Sutra Tube Incense. Some women go their whole lives without it—until one day, they meet a spiritual teacher who opens their mind, teaching that clinging to the ego (“self-attachment”) is the true source of suffering.

Why Burn the Heart Sutra Tube Incense After Divorce?

1. Purification of body and mind.
   As the incense smoke rises, it cleanses your negative energy field. It dispels the residue of your ex-partner’s influence, allowing you to step forward into a new life.
2. Letting go of the ego.
   Burning incense is an act of great love. It means accepting spiritual guidance, releasing resentment, and forgiving the other person. Your ex is no longer your karmic debtor but a fellow traveler on the path. How beautiful is that? The Buddha said that women endure great suffering. After divorce, we should not allow hatred to take root and continue.

The incense itself is made with sacred powder. I use ritual methods to dedicate the story of the user to Guhyajnana Dakini (Kurukulle), a fierce yet compassionate deity. She understands your sorrow and will bless you. Of course, you are free to reject this blessing and refuse to burn the incense. That simply means you remain in ignorance, without wisdom.

Ritual Steps

1. Purify yourself first. Take a bath before burning the incense.
2. Prepare properly. Place the incense on a censer or altar table (do not use a dish—past devotees reported breakage).
3. Light the incense.
4. Join your palms. During the process, recall your entire relationship—meeting, joys, conflicts, and the breakup. Cry if you must. Let them be tears of gratitude.
5. Conclude the ritual. Once the incense has burned out, wrap your ex’s photo, the ashes, and any related items in red or yellow cloth. Within 100 days, either bring them to a temple for burning or send them to a spiritual master for handling.

With the blessings of Guhyajnana Dakini, the Heart Sutra Tube Incense helps clear karmic obstacles. And I, Master Hung, extend my blessings to you.

离婚，己再不是一个话题

(熊神进，资深风水师傅，执业30多年)

按中国民政部数据，2022年前三季度就有164.3万对夫妇结束婚姻。2022全国离婚率为43.53%，几乎2对结婚的就有1对离婚的，数字是令人不安。

三世书说“如无前生欠，哪有今生见”，笔者是认同的，如果没有前生的“你我相欠”，今生女孩子又为何“婚前笑，婚后哭？”

女生很想拥抱幸福，但拥有幸福日子久了，累，一个不经意把男人放下，男人就溜走了。

笔者做了命运信箱20多年(https://weibo.com/3979119649)， 一直以来面对不少女性读者的离婚/分手问题，作为一位职业算命先生， 我们的八字是隐藏了婚姻很多元素，有人吵吵骂骂仍可以到耄耋之年；有人忍不着丈夫的花心，离婚了。

从三世书来看，我们很想女性放下「小爱」去接受「大爱」(尤其是离婚后的女性) 。有读者问 「小爱」 跟「大爱」有什么不同，笔者认为不同之处是有没有「三毒之心」。

「小爱」是一维观念，今生我和你认识，我爱你，而你没有珍惜，你搞婚外情，一脚踏两船，这就是你的问题。「小爱」的女生不会承担责任，不会感恩，她们把一切问题都归咎于男人，从认识，谈恋爱，结婚，以致离婚，女生都认为自己是「对」，男人是「错」，不会感恩，只会仇恨，因此， 她们受 「小爱」捆绑，分手后/离婚后，从来不主动烧「心经筒香」。

「大爱」是二维观念，二维是空间，亦即时空，我们认为每人都有「累世」，他/她前生是我们的夫/妻，今生他/她和我续缘；前生我们是仇敌，今生我们狭路相逢。「大爱」是无情， 我们把冤亲放下，我不再跟你同床， 在我离开你之后， 请你好好保重，我一定把我的「心经筒香」烧去，把我的债还光， 我们同一蓝天下，各有各的修行。这份「大爱」是从修行回来，不是人人都可以有这份福。

分手/离婚后我们都受家人的感染，大家都是支持你，情感上你是对的，你的男友/老公是错的，因此你不会烧「心经筒香」， 一生都不烧，直至有一天， 你遇上玄学家，他/她给你开窍，把善知识告诉你，你才明白「我执」是痛苦。

离婚后烧一份「心经筒香」有二个利点：

1. 洁体净心。

在烧香的过程中，轻烟袅袅， 净化你的负磁场， 把男人玷在妳身上的秽气(衰气)送走，妳会用新生来迎接未来的美好。

• 放下我执。

烧香是一份大爱， 妳接受了玄学家的建议，把「我执」放下，去原谅对方，你和他的恩怨就了结，对方不再是妳的宿世债主，而是一位同修人，这意象多好。佛说女人是苦身，分手/离婚后，我们不应该再把仇恨延续下去。

「心经筒香」的材料主要是玄粉，笔者会用玄学方法做仪轨，把使用者的故事禀告《咕噜咕咧佛母》， 佛母是威武，她会理解妳的烦恼，也会给妳祝福。当然你可以拒绝接受佛母的祝福，也不烧「心经筒香」，这是妳个人无明，没有般若。

烧「心经筒香」步骤：

1. 烧「心经筒香」前，建议先沐浴。
2. 请把「心经筒香」放在香炉里/台面上(按过去信士的反馈，碟子会裂开)。
3. 开始烧香。
4. 过程中，请双手合什，最后一次回忆跟他的认识、优缺点、意见不合、分手等。妳可以哭，是感恩的泪水。
5. 香熄后，你把前男友/前夫的照片、香灰、物品等用一个红色/黄色包好，一百天内送去寺庙用火化去，或寄去玄学家代处理。

《咕噜咕咧佛母》为妳加持，「心经筒香」为妳消除业障，熊神进老师为妳祝福。